[精选推荐]8种方法打败生活中的敌人

    We all face ill-wishers, when we set goals and begin to reach them, no matter at what stage we are now: sceptics, critics, people who taunt us or say that we won’t succeed in what we do.

    当我们设定了目标并开始去实现的时候，不论我们目前处于哪个阶段，我们都会遇到幸灾乐祸的人：有的人持怀疑态度，有的大肆批评，有的则奚落我们，或者预言我们在所做的事情上不会成功。

    Such people are a very powerful force, because even with “innocent” jokes and comments they can make you slow down or even stop moving towards your goals.

    此类人具有超强的影响力，因为即便说了些“毫无恶意的”玩笑和话语，他们就能让你放慢甚至停下向目标前进的脚步。

    How to deal with ill-wishers? Of course, they are all different, but here are a few good general tips:

    如何应对幸灾乐祸的人呢？当然，他们各不相同，但是我们总结了以下几条应对一般情况的建议：

    1. First, learn to identify them.首先，学会认清他们。

    2. Think maybe they are right.思考一下或许他们是对的。

    3. Reject any negative thoughts they bring.不接受他们带来的任何消极思想。

    4. Understand that you will always have enemies, and don’t take them to heart.懂得你总是会有敌人，不要把他们放在心上。

    5. Try to win them over.努力把敌人争取过来。

    6. Laugh with them.跟他们一起笑。

    7. Have ready-made counter-arguments and use them.用现成的论点反驳他们。

    8. Be sure that you are doing something good.肯定你做的事情是好事。